TAMPA (WFTS) -- April is Donate Life Month, and there are currently 115,000 people living in America waiting for an organ transplant. Robert Humphrey was one of them until, out of nowhere, he received a message that would change his life and save his life.
Entering 2025, Humphrey, of Riverview, wasnโt sure he was going to share another wedding anniversary with his high school sweetheart Marie. He was only given a few weeks to live unless he received a heart transplant.
โPretty much resigned myself that I was going to die,โ said Humphrey. โIโm posting online on my Facebook, I have several thousand people that follow me, and Iโve been telling them whatโs going on on my transplant journey, and one of these people was a lady named Pam Hendrickson.โ
Pam lives in Wisconsin. It was their shared love for German Shepherds that connected her with Robert on social media a few years earlier, but neither of them could have ever imagined how deep that connection would become.
โOn January the third she contacted me and said, โBob, EJ, her son, was killed in a car accident yesterday,โ and she said, โwould you be interested in having his heart,โโ said Humphrey.
A few days later, Robert was out of surgery and on his way to recovery with a new heart.
โWe were just stunned because you never in a million years would suspect someone you know to give you that heart and then for it to be a 100 percent match,โ said Humphrey.
Tampa General Hospital is among the countryโs leaders in organ transplants, but Director and Chief of Cardiovascular Surgery, Dr. Lucian Lozonschi, says this is the first time he can recall the family of a heart donor actually knowing the recipient.
โThis is an extraordinary example how a deep connection on social media could save Robertโs life, who was waiting for a heart,โ said Dr. Lozonschi.
โHaving someone save your life is not a small thing, having someone think of you in a time of tragedy; I mean, she just lost her son, and she thought of me,โ said Humphrey.
Robert and Pam have yet to meet in person, but they continue to stay in close contact over social media.
โItโs hard to lose somebody like your son so young, especially because he has two little kids that were his world, and they are missing their dad but hopefully someday they can go on and maybe hear dadโs heart still beating, another person able to live because their dad was able to help him,โ said Hendrickson.
Robert hopes his story inspires others to choose organ donation.
โI wouldnโt be here today if EJ hadnโt registered to be an organ donor,โ said Humphrey. โI think if Iโm not a voice for Donate Life and the organ transplant community I donโt know who would be.โ