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Lama Rod describes himself as a Black Buddhist Southern Queen. He wants to free you from suffering.

Lama Rod Owens
April 21, 2024

ROME, Ga (AP) โ€” Instead of traditional maroon and gold Tibetan Buddhist robes, Lama Rod Owens wore a white animal print cardigan over a bright yellow T-shirt with an image of singer Sade, an Africa-shaped medallion and mala beads โ€” the most recognizable sign of his Buddhism.

"Being a Buddhist or a spiritual leader, I got rid of trying to wear the part because it just wasnโ€™t authentic to me,โ€ said Owens, 44, who describes himself as a Black Buddhist Southern Queen.

โ€œFor me, itโ€™s not about looking like a Buddhist. Itโ€™s about being myself,โ€ he said at his motherโ€™s home in Rome, Georgia. "And I like color.โ€

Lama Rod describes himself as a Black Buddhist Southern Queen. He wants to free you from suffering.
Lama Rod Owens

The Harvard Divinity School -educated lama and yoga teacher blends his training in the Kagyu School of Tibetan Buddhism with pop culture references and experiences from his life as a Black, queer man, raised in the South by his mother, a pastor at a Christian church.

Today, he is an influential voice in a new generation of Buddhist teachers, respected for his work focused on social change, identity and spiritual wellness.

On the popular mindfulness app Calm, his wide-ranging courses include โ€œComing Out,โ€ โ€œCaring for your Grief,โ€ and โ€œ Radical Self-Care โ€ (sometimes telling listeners to โ€œshake it offโ€ like Mariah Carey). In his latest book, โ€œ The New Saints,โ€ he highlights Christian saints and spiritual warriors, Buddhist bodhisattvas and Jewish tzaddikim among those who have sought to free people from suffering.

โ€œSaints are ordinary and human, doing things any person can learn to do,โ€ Owen writes in his book, where he combines personal stories, traditional teachings and instructions for meditations.

Lama Rod describes himself as a Black Buddhist Southern Queen. He wants to free you from suffering.
Lama Rod Owens

โ€œOur era calls for saints who are from this time and place, speak the language of this moment, and integrate both social and spiritual liberation,โ€ he writes.โ€œ I believe we all can and must become New Saints.โ€

But how? โ€œItโ€™s not about becoming a superhero,โ€ he said, stressing the need to care for others.

And itโ€™s not reserved for the canonized. โ€œHarriet Tubman is a saint for me,โ€ he said about the 19th century Black abolitionist known for helping enslaved people escape to freedom on the Underground Railroad. โ€œShe came to this world and said, โ€˜I want people to be free.โ€™โ€

Owens grew up in a devout Baptist and Methodist family. His life revolved around his local church.

Lama Rod describes himself as a Black Buddhist Southern Queen. He wants to free you from suffering.
Lama Rod Owens

When he was 13, his mother, who owns a baseball cap that reads: โ€œGodโ€™s Girl,โ€ became a United Methodist minister. He calls her the single greatest impact in his life.

โ€œLike a lot of Black women, she embodied wisdom and resiliency and vision. She taught me how to work. And she taught me how to change because I saw her changing.โ€

He was inspired by her commitment to a spiritual path, especially when she went against the wishes of some in her family, who โ€” like in many patriarchal religions โ€” believed a woman should not lead a congregation.

โ€œIโ€™m very proud of him,โ€ said the Rev. Wendy Owens, who sat near her son in her living room, decorated with their photographs and painted portraits.

Lama Rod describes himself as a Black Buddhist Southern Queen. He wants to free you from suffering.
Lama Rod Owens

โ€œHe made his path. He walked his path, or he might have even ran his path,โ€ she said. โ€œDonโ€™t know how he got there, but he got there.โ€

A life devoted to spirituality seemed unlikely for her son after he entered Berry College, a nondenominational Christian school. It didnโ€™t deepen his relationship with Christianity. Instead, he stopped attending church. He wanted to โ€œdevelop a healthy sense of self-worthโ€ about his queerness, and was dismayed by conservative religious views on gender and sexuality. He felt the way that God had been presented to him was too rigid, even vengeful. So, in his words, he โ€œbroke up with God.โ€

His new religion, he said, became service. He trained as an advocate for sexual assault survivors, and volunteered for projects on HIV/AIDS education, homelessness, teen pregnancy and substance abuse.

โ€œEven though I wasnโ€™t doing this theology anymore, what I was definitely doing was following the path of Jesus: feeding people, sheltering people.โ€

Lama Rod describes himself as a Black Buddhist Southern Queen. He wants to free you from suffering.
Lama Rod Owens

After college, he moved to Boston and joined Haley House, a nonprofit partly inspired by the Catholic Worker Movement that runs a soup kitchen and affordable housing programs.

There, he said, he met people across a range of religious traditions โ€” โ€œfrom Hinduism to Christian Science to all the denominations of Christianity, Buddhists, Wiccans, Muslims. Monastics from different traditions, everyone.โ€

A Buddhist friend gave him a book that helped him find his spiritual path: โ€œCave in the Snow,โ€ by Tibetan Buddhist nun Jetsunma Tenzin Palmo.

The British-born nun spent years isolated in a cave in the Himalayas to follow the rigorous path of the most devoted yogis. She later founded a nunnery in India focused on giving women in Tibetan Buddhism some of the opportunities reserved for monks.

Lama Rod describes himself as a Black Buddhist Southern Queen. He wants to free you from suffering.
Lama Rod Owens

โ€œWhen I started exploring Buddhism, I never thought, โ€™Oh, Black people donโ€™t do this, or maybe this is in conflict with my Christian upbringing,โ€™โ€ Owens said.โ€œ What I thought was: โ€™Hereโ€™s something that can help me to suffer less. ... I was only interested in how to reduce harm against myself and others.โ€

At Harvard Divinity School, he was again immersed in religious diversity โ€” even a Satanist was there.

โ€œWhat I love about Rod is that heโ€™s deeply himself no matter who heโ€™s with,โ€ said Cheryl Giles, a Harvard Divinity professor who mentored him and who now considers him one of her own teachers.

โ€œWhen I think of him, I think of this concept of Boddhisatva in Buddhism, the deeply compassionate being who is on the path to awakening and sees the suffering of the world and makes a commitment to help liberate others,โ€ said Giles.

Lama Rod describes himself as a Black Buddhist Southern Queen. He wants to free you from suffering.
Lama Rod Owens

โ€œAnd I love,โ€ she said, "that heโ€™s Black and Buddhist.โ€

Through Buddhism, mindfulness and long periods of silent retreats, Owens eventually reconciled with God.

โ€œGod isnโ€™t some old man sitting on a throne in the clouds, whoโ€™s, like, very temperamental,โ€ he said. โ€œGod is space and emptiness and energy. God is always this experience, inviting us back through our most divine, sacred souls. God is love.โ€

His schedule keeps him busy these days โ€” appearing in podcasts and social media, speaking to college students and leading meditations, yoga and spiritual retreats across the world.

Lama Rod describes himself as a Black Buddhist Southern Queen. He wants to free you from suffering.
Lama Rod Owens

So much inspires him. He wrote his latest book listening to Beyonce and thinking about the work of choreographer Alvin Ailey. Thereโ€™s Toni Morrison and James Baldwin. He loves Tony Kushnerโ€™s โ€œAngels in America.โ€ And pioneering fashion journalist Andre Leon Talley of Vogue magazine, who he says taught him to appreciate beauty.

โ€œI want people to feel the same way when they experience something that I talk about or write about,โ€ Owens said. โ€œThatโ€™s part of the work of the artist โ€” to help us to feel and to not be afraid to feel. To help us dream differently, inspire us and shake us out of our rigidity to get more fluid.โ€

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Associated Press journalist Jessie Wardarski contributed to this report.

Lama Rod describes himself as a Black Buddhist Southern Queen. He wants to free you from suffering.
Lama Rod Owens

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Associated Press religion coverage receives support through the APโ€™s collaboration with The Conversation US, with funding from Lilly Endowment Inc. The AP is solely responsible for this content.

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