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Millennials are cutting off their parents and this is why

Millennials are cutting off their parents and this is why
August 02, 2024
Sophia Martinez - LA Post

A growing number of young adults are cutting ties with their parents, citing reasons of mental health and personal boundaries, according to recent reports and expert analysis.

The trend, known as "familial rupture," affects approximately 12 million people in the UK, or about one-fifth of families, based on a survey by the charity Stand Alone. Usually, it's the younger ones slamming the door shut on their parents.

Experts attribute this trend to multiple factors, with social media playing a significant role, according to Dr. Kaur. She explained to the Daily Mail that social media platforms have increased focus on individualism and mental health awareness. However, Dr. Kaur cautioned that these online environments often oversimplify complex psychological issues, potentially leading individuals to make hasty judgments about their parents' behavior and worth in their lives.

Everyone's talking about mental health these days, so people are getting very selective with their inner circle. Young people today? They'll drop you quickly if you step out of line. No messing about.

If you're thinking about ghosting your family, there's probably a Facebook group for that. Reddit has whole communities for people who've ditched their parents, with their own lingo like "NC" for total radio silence. #ToxicFamily is blowing up on TikTok with nearly 2 billion views.

Psychotherapist Gin Lalli observes a generational shift in handling difficult family relationships. The older generation might grin and bear it, but millennials are more likely to say "see you" and walk away for good. Lalli's worried this quick-fix approach might close doors that can't be reopened, with consequences down the line.

Cutting off mom and dad doesn't just affect them - it can ripple out to the whole family tree. Some children might never know their grandparents because of these family feuds.

Some people reckon the younger generation is too quick to cut ties over issues that aren't worth the drama. On the flip side, those who've done it say it's sometimes the only way to maintain their mental health and look after themselves.

It's not just your average person dealing with this issue. Even the rich and famous like Adele and Brad Pitt have family drama, which only adds fuel to the fire of public interest.

The experts are saying "whoa, slow down" - think long and hard before you burn those bridges. They're pushing for people to try sorting things out and setting boundaries before going nuclear on their relationships.

Who knows where this will end up? We're still in uncharted territory with family drama. Time will tell if they reconcile when they're older with children of their own, or if they'll keep giving mum and dad the cold shoulder.

The phenomenon of family estrangement demonstrates how younger generations are challenging traditional concepts of family dynamics, personal boundaries, and mental well-being. As awareness of this trend grows, it is prompting significant discourse on the balance between self-care and familial obligation. This debate raises important questions about the evolving nature of family relationships and the role of individual mental health in modern society.

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